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ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES : 1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Don't get used to government houses. This comfort is so dangerous. Let all your family have good time in your house.   2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year. You are not the pillar of your department. If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue. Make your family a priority. 3. Don't chase promotions. Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't, stay positive to your personal. development. 4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda. 5. Don't ever compete with your bosses. You will burn your fingers. Don't compete with your colleagues...

10 signs she is not into you 🥺 1. She doesn't text you back. Women are communicative. If you text a girl, and she likes you, chances are, she will reply to you. And soon! If she isn't answering your text messages, that is a surefire sign that she just isn't that into you. 2. She avoids being alone with you. If she always says things like "I'll meet you there," or if she never wants to hang out alone with you or at your house, she probably doesn't like you. 3. She doesn't ask you any personal questions. If a woman isn't 'mystified' and 'curious' about you as a man, odds are basically zero that she's going to be interested in you. 4. She tries to tell you all her bad qualities. Pointing out all her faults is a way to tell you that you should find someone who is better suited for you, or that she is just not into you. 5. She doesn't care about the topics you're discussing. If she doesn't seem to care about anything you...

Anger Mananagement   Anger take the wheel and drive our reactions, especially when others push our buttons. But here's a thought: What if we don't have to give away that power?  🔹 Recognize the Triggers: Start by identifying what sets off your anger. Is it a specific person, situation, or comment? 🔹 Pause and Breathe: When you feel the heat rising, take a moment. Breathe deeply. This simple act can prevent a knee-jerk reaction. 🔹 Reflect, Don't React: Ask yourself, "Why am I angry?" Understanding the root cause can shift your perspective. 🔹 Healthy Outlets: Channel that energy into something positive – exercise, journaling, or a creative hobby. 🔹 Communication is Key: Express your feelings calmly. Sometimes, just talking about it can diffuse the anger. 🔹 Seek Understanding: Try to see things from the other person's point of view. It doesn't mean agreeing, but understanding can bring peace. 🔹 Practice Forgiveness: Holding onto anger is like drinking ...

If you lack discipline, read this POST. 1. Define a clear goal. Without a clear goal it is hard to define exactly what you want. Your mind doesn’t need an invitation to procrastinate. Begin to visualise what it is you really want. Writing down your goal will help to bring it into reality. 2. Establish a clear plan. You may know what it is you want but if you don’t know how to achieve it, the chances are, you will fail. Outline a plan that breaks down each individual step you will need to attain your goal. Small steps lead to big changes. 3. Strengthen your self confidence. One thing the successful in society all have in common is self confidence. You need to develop the mindset that you are good enough to achieve what you set out to, otherwise why even try ? You can do this. 4. Build habits.  Habits make life 10x easier. The more you have to think about what you’re doing the greater chance that your mind will start to wonder. Systems and habits remove the guessing and give you a c...